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01.02.2013

Pastors… Four Motivations to Get Back to Work After a Vacation

 
 
No matter how much we love our ministries, coming off a vacation and getting back to work is tough. We’ve gotten into new rhythms of life, we’ve been relieved of the tensions that accompany the important roles that God has given us, and we have begun to feel as though going back is a curse from Satan, not an opportunity given us by God.
 
Each year as we hit the Monday morning after vacation we need to remember a few important facts…
 
1. We rest from our work so that we are refreshed to do more work. (Exodus 23:12)
 
2. We work for Christ, not the elders or the personnel committee. (Ephesians 6:5 – 9)
 
3. We work for a greater reward than the admiration of those who are our church. (Ephesians 6:7 – 9)
 
4. We are called by God, not hired by the church. (1 Corinthians 12:27 – 31)
 
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12.11.2012

Vacationing… When to Sabbath from Blogging

 
 
Last year I posted the blog below titled, “When to Sabbath from Blogging.” I gotta tell ya’… I believe each one of these points is true.
 
I blog about five time per week. Most of my blog posts are supposed to help all church leaders, especially small group pastors, and small group leaders in their ministries. Sometimes my goal is to provoke thought that will lead to change.  If you read this blog often you know that there is a plethora of information, some good, some that could probably have been kept to myself. Either way, blogging substantial information that often can become draining, even create blogger’s burnout.
 
We all need a break from the everydayness of everything we do. It’s called Sabbath. But when should we do this when it comes to our blogging? I think there are some very evident times when setting aside blogging makes sense and allows each of us to regain the energy needed to blog on.
 
1.     When those who read your blog are focused on other things. For instance… Most of the readers of this blog are church leaders who will be giving their time and attention to wrapping up loose ends this week prior to taking the Thanksgiving holiday. Few of them will be taking the time to read this or any other blog.
 
2.     When you are vacationing. Vacation is a time to vacate those actions and activities that are routine. We vacate so that our spirits can be renewed and we can be refreshed and ready to dream new dreams and accomplish the work God has designed for us to do. If blogging is part of your routine I’d suggest you vacate it while vacationing.
 
3.     When your other ministry responsibilities are not getting accomplished or are not being completed with excellence. For those of you who are staff pastors, your first responsibility is to see that life transformation is taking place in the people God has called you to lead. If blogging keeps you from mentoring future leaders, discipling others, accomplishing goals that are vital to your vision becoming a reality, or keeps you from any other work that is essential to your ministry flourishing, you may want to set blogging aside for a short period of time then come back to it later.
 
4.     When a more important deadline is about to become a reality. Sometimes a deadline is running at us like a 747 speeding down the runway. In these times, every minute must be used wisely. In most of our worlds blogging brings us much satisfaction and is even part of our ministry. But if we don’t blog for a week no one is concerned. On the other hand, if important deadlines are not met other people on our team could be greatly affected and our reputations as good leaders contaminated.
 
5.     When your heart has nothing to say. It is my goal to always write from my heart, to bring something to the blogging table each day that is real and honest and that I am passionate about. There have been a few days when nothing was creating the healthy inner tension that forces me to write down my thoughts. On those days, I’m learning to set aside blogging and focus my attention on other ministry objectives. On most of those days, I am overwhelmed with a list of topics that need to be blogged about in the days ahead.
 
As you might imagine, I’ll be taking a break from blogging this week. Maybe you ought to consider the same.
 
Thanks for reading this or any other blog post you find at this site. I am honored that anyone would.
 
Rick Howerton 
 
 
Each year I save most of my vacation time and take it during the Christmas season. So… this will be my last blog in 2012. I’ll be back and posting again on January 2!
 
Have a super Christmas and thanks for reading my ponderings.
 
Rick Howerton
Global Small Group Environmentalist
NavPress Publishing
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12.10.2012

Some of My Favorite Small Group Christmas Blogs (16 of ‘em) by People I Respect

 
 
There are some great small group bloggers. Many of them are my friends. They have done some fantastic blogs for small group pastors and leaders that are Christmas-centric. I thought I’d put some of them on this one page so you could easily get ideas for your small groups or your small group ministry. Check these out…
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
The Cross at Christmas by Heather Zempel
 
Spirit of Peace by Heather Zempel
 
Christmas Break by Eddie Mosley
 
Open House for Neighbors by Eddie Mosley
 
 
 
Just (Don’t) Do It by Bill Donahue
 
 
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12.07.2012

A Verse to Memorize This Christmas

 
 
Scripture memory is so very important and often overlooked. This Christmas small group leaders would do well to encourage their group members to memorize the verse below. It is a reminder that Jesus’ coming was predicted long before His arrival and will help them keep their focus on the real reason we celebrate during this season.
 
For to us a child is born,
    to us a son is given,
    and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
    Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
    Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Isaiah 9: 6
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12.06.2012

Words of Comfort for Small Group Leaders This Christmas Season

 
 
Yesterday I did a blog post that unveiled some of the reasons that small group members need counsel during the Christmas season. When a small group leader is faced with a group member who is struggling it is vital that the small group member simply listen. Most people who are grieving first need a listening ear, not a talking head. At some point in the conversation it’s important that the small group leader give some word of encouragement. No words are more comforting that the words of God Himself. Below you’ll find a list of short passages that can be used by your small group leaders to comfort and encourage those who are hurting.
 
Psalms 30:5 Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.
 
Psalms 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
 
Lamentations 3:22-23 (KJV)It is of the LORD’s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.
 
Psalms 55:22 Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.
 
Psalms 9:9 The LORD is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.
 
1 Peter 5:6-7 (KJV) Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
 
Psalms 22:24 For he has not despised or abhorred the affliction of the afflicted, and he has not hidden his face from him, but has heard, when he cried to him.
 
Nahum 1:7 The LORD is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; he knows those who take refuge in him.
 
Psalms 116:1-2 I love the LORD, because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy. Because he inclined his ear to me, therefore I will call on him as long as I live.
 
Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV) For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
 
Lamentations 3:31-32 For the Lord will not  cast off forever, but, though he cause grief, he will have compassion according to the abundance of his steadfast love; for he does not willingly afflict or grieve the children of men.
 
John 14:16-18 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.”I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you…”
 
John 14:26-27 But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.
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12.05.2012

Wise Awarenesses for Small Group Leaders During the Christmas Season

 
 
We anticipate that our small group leaders will be pastors/shepherds for the small congregation that meets in their home. As is true of anyone who shepherds others, they are expected to meet the emotional needs of those they lead which, during the holiday season, can be especially perplexing.
 
My first few years in ministry, I remember being blindsided with counseling conversations during the Christmas season. This amazed me as I had anticipated everyone would be so busy celebrating that negativity would be off the table. I hadn’t considered the following…
 
1. Many exes are dealing with the anger and disappointment of a spouse who has divorced them since the prior Christmas.
 
2. Many spouses are alone for the first time due to the death of a husband or wife.
 
3. Many people work in retail and their lives are more busy than ever during the Christmas season. They feel guilty that they cannot spend more time with their family due to their work schedule.
 
4. Many households are financially strapped and unable to give their children what they long to give them and what they believe their children deserve.
 
5. Many people are reminded that they are estranged from their parents and/or siblings and struggle with the guilt of unforgiveness.
 
6. Many people long to be with their extended family but they don’t have the resources to travel across the country to be with them.
 
7. Many people have lost those they love due to death. These people struggle during the Christmas season as they are without those who are so dear to them.
 
I would suggest that you send this list to your small group leaders. Suggest that they quickly run through the list of group members in their group and determine who might be struggling during this Christmas season. This will allow the group leader to pray for those group members who may be struggling. This will also allow the small group leader to mentally prepare himself if a small group member who fits in one of these categories seeks counsel from them. 
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12.04.2012

Margaret Feinberg Does it Again… Wonderstruck: Awaken to the Nearness of God

 
 
My friend, Margaret Feinberg [www.margaretfeinberg.com], has a new book and 7-session DVD Bible study called Wonderstruck: Awaken to the Nearness of God[www.margaretfeinberg.com/wonderstruck] (releasing Christmas Day).
 
I recently received the insider’s scoop about Margaret’s new book. Here are some highlights from the interview:
 
 
Where did the inspiration for the Wonderstruck book and Bible study come from?
 
Have you ever had one of those seasons where everything goes wrong, and when you think it can’t get worse, it somehow finds a way? My husband, Leif, and I had just gone through one of the roughest years of our lives. In the aftermath, as we processed the pain and loss, I had an unexplainable desire in my heart. I began praying for the wonder of God. In essence, I said, “God reveal yourself, your whole self to me. I want to know you as Wonderful. I want to know you as I’ve never known you before and see you in places I’ve never recognized you before.” God did not disappoint.
 
 
What do you mean by “the wonder of God”?
 
Sometimes talking or writing about wonder feels like tying kite strings to clouds. It’s ethereal, and you can never quite get a grip on it. But if you look in the dictionary, the two main definitions of wonder are: “being filled with admiration, amazement, or awe” and “to think or speculate curiously.”
 
Those definitions come together beautifully in our relationship with God. That’s why I define the wonder of God as those moments of spiritual awakening that create a desire to know God more.
 
In other words, the wonder of God isn’t about an emotional experience or having some cool story to tell your friends, but the wonder of God makes us want more of God—to go deeper and further than we’ve ever been before.
 
 
Why do you think we so easily lose the wonder?
 
It’s amazing how quickly we can grow numb to the wonder of God in our lives. I think there are a variety of reasons. Paying bills. Getting that degree. Providing for a family. Raising kids. Caring for aging parents. The list goes on.
 
All too often we find ourselves head down, pushing ahead, just trying to get through. Somewhere along the way, a gap begins to develop between God and us. A drifting takes place. We’re not only less aware of God’s presence in our lives, we’re less expectant. And so even when God does show up, we miss him. We pass by unaware. We’re spiritually asleep and we don’t even know it.
 
Yet I believe that as followers of Jesus we’re meant to live wonderstruck. We’re invited to live on the edge of our seats in wild expectation of what God might do next. I want to live with this kind of divine expectation, that wide awake spiritual hunger, searching for God in how ever he may want to reveal himself.
 
 
Why you do you encourage people to pray for wonder?
 
This is an incredibly powerful prayer, because praying for wonder invites us to change the posture with which we live our lives. When we pray for wonder, we’re asking God to expand our capacity to see and savor the divine gifts all around and take us deeper in our journey with Christ and in the Scripture than we’ve ever been. A prayer for wonder essentially says, “God, I want more of you! Take my breath away!” And leaves us living expectant for how God will answer. 
 
 
What do you hope people will gain from the Wonderstruck book and Bible study?
 
My hope is that you will be awakened to the imminent presence of God in your life. We do not serve a God who is far off, but One who is near, ever present, and intimately involved in the most minute details of our lives. I think we can so easily forget this.
 
So my prayer has been that you will begin seeing God in unexpected ways right in the midst of your routine, that your passion for God will be reignited, and you’ll find the Scripture coming alive in a whole new way.
 
Follow Margaret’s snarky, funny, and inspirational posts on Twitter [www.twitter.com/mafeinberg], Facebook [www.facebook.com/margaretfeinberg], or her blog [www.margaretfeinberg.com].
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12.03.2012

Encouraging and Equipping Small Group Leaders, Great Christmas Gifts

 
 
Great small group pastors are encouragers constantly asking themselves how they can help their small group leaders become even better leaders. When it’s possible to both encourage and train at the same time… Well, that’s a HUGE win win.
 
This Christmas, instead of giving your small group leaders a Starbucks card, why not give them a gift that will both encourage and help them be better small group leaders. A book on leading groups with a personal note written by you, their small group pastor, to them is a fantastic way to tell your small group leaders how grateful you are for them while giving them even greater knowledge when it comes to group leadership.
 
Below you’ll find a great list of options.
 
Helping Those Who Hurt by Barbara M. Roberts
101 Ways to Help People in Need by Steve and Janie Sjogren
201 Great Questions by Jerry D. Jones
How to Lead Small Groups by Neal F. McBride
How to Ask Great Questions by Karen Lee-Thorp
 
If you do choose to purchase any of these for your small group leaders, when you get to the NavPress website (after clicking on the title) notice the bulk pricing in the bottom right-hand corner of the page.
 
Have a very Merry Christmas!!!
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11.29.2012

Blog Posts from Christmases Past

 
 
Through the years I’ve done quite a few blog posts about Christmas. These are either for pastors or small group leaders. Some of them might be helpful to you. I thought I’d give you links today to all of them I could find.
 
 
For Small Group Leaders:
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
For Pastors:
 
 
 
 
 
 
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11.28.2012

Five Reasons You Shouldn’t Expect Your Pastors to Attend Your Small Group Party

 
 
The holiday season is often awkward for pastors. Most pastors truly love the people they work with, especially those who take on the responsibility of leading a small group as small group leaders are co-shepherds accomplishing important ministry. When the Christmas season rolls around almost every small group will have a party. And, in many churches, the pastor or pastors will be invited to many of those parties.
 
If small group leaders aren’t careful, when a pastor turns down the invitation, the leader will be hurt or miffed. Because the small group leader doesn’t understand the pastor’s world, they take the “turn down” personally. Maybe this short list will help small group leaders understand why pastors can’t attend every small group’s party.
 
1. Your pastor needs and deserves the time to make holiday memories with their own children. If a pastor attends every party he is invited to this is impossible.
 
2. Many pastors are emotionally drained during the holiday season as there is more counseling taking place than in other months. This due to the fact that those who have lost family members are dealing with grief and loss for the first time, those who are estranged from family or don’t have meaningful friendship relationships are finding themselves depressed, and due to the fact that many are struggling financially, the pastor’s counseling load is very heavy.
 
3. The pastor’s workload is heavier during the holiday season than any other. Advent brings with it additional teaching responsibilities, many churches are preparing for the next year’s budget planning, the community often calls on pastors to be involved in some way with programs that are taking place, and end of the year evaluations are completed during this season.
 
4. Pastors are involved in special church-wide events at church. Many churches do musical events that span multiple days. In most church settings the entire church staff is expected to be in attendance and working in some way.
 
5. Pastors must be involved in the preparation of, the promotion of, and the speaking at special events such as Christmas Eve services. This adds an immense amount of work on the pastor as this is one of the most important annual events as many unbelievers will be in attendance.
 
After reading this list, I’m certain you can see why a pastor on your church’s team might turn down an invitation to your small group’s Christmas party. If you really want to bless them, take a small collection from your small group to give to one of your pastors. Give them a gift card to a restaurant that you think your pastor and their spouse will enjoy. On the card write, “Our group knows how hard you work during the holiday season. We would like for you to take your spouse out for a relaxing meal after this season has ended. Enjoy!”


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