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06.21.2012

How to Get Small Group Members To Read Their Bibles IV… Depersonalizing It

 Some of us who teach the Bible have a tendency to use terminology that removes the God of the Bible. We use terminology that would lead many to believe that there is no Person whose voice is being heard through it. In fact, rather than utilizing terminology that reminds the listener that God speaks to us through a book called the Bible, we use terminology that subconsciously tells the listener that it is the book that speaks, not the Author of the Bible.
 
For instance, we talk about “getting into the Scriptures,” “reading our Bibles,” “the authority of Scripture” and “spending time in the Word.” When we do this the listener feels an obligation to read a book rather than sensing there’s an opportunity to know the Author’s heart through the reading of the book.
 
The Bible is an autobiography from God Himself. We worship and long to know Him. But sometimes when listening to teachers teach we would be led to believe that we worship the book itself. In order to keep those who are in your group or in your congregation in tune with the living God of the Bible you might consider using the kinds of phrases listed below.
 
“God tells us in the Bible that…”
“In Scripture God says…”
“When God said to us in the Bible to…”
“Jesus once said…”
“The Holy Spirit spoke to…”
“God wasn’t hesitant to say to us…”
“Jesus reminds us in the Bible that…”
“Jesus demanded that we…”    

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06.20.2012

How to Get Small Group Members to Read Their Bibles III… Stop Telling Them They’re Stupid

 
I once had a conversation with someone I respect greatly, Dr. Randy Millwood (Randy is one of the unknown geniuses in cell church and small group world. He was once a professor at New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. More importantly he is very well studied in all aspects of group life and planted a successful cell church network.) We were discussing the preaching event. He said something that I have never forgotten. He said something like, “I no longer tell those I’m preaching to what a term means in the original language.” I was flabbergasted as oftentimes that enhances the teaching so much (and makes the preacher seem to be really intelligent). I asked him why he had made this choice. He reminded me that when those of us who teach God’s Word make it sound as though we are the only ones smart enough to know what the Bible is telling us some will conclude that there’s no reason for them to spend time reading it because they can’t understand it anyway.
 
I do believe those of us who teach need to be very careful. When it seems to the average person that they cannot learn what God is unveiling in the Bible unless they have a seminary education the average Joe may not spend time reading it for themselves. They just might consider it a waste of their time since they’re too stupid to understand it.
 
A few things to do so group members realize that they are capable of learning when reading...
1.     Senior pastors, please consider using less scholarly talk in the sermon time. The truth is this… It is not necessary to say, “the Hebrew means,” or “the Greek actually says,” in order to get more specific when describing what God is saying.
2.     Point out consistently that the Holy Spirit is the teacher and that the same Holy Spirit that is in her/his senior pastor is in them.
3.     Give them a list websites with free commentaries. 


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06.19.2012

How to Get Small Group Members to Read Their Bibles II… “Disciplines”

 
I just don’t like the word “disciplines.” Sounds too much like… work. Sounds too much like… a command. Sounds too much like there’s a demeaning coach demanding his underlings painfully run an overabundance of unnecessary spiritual laps.
 
But we often tell those who should be spending time in God’s Word that it is their responsibility to carry out the “disciplines” and that reading the Bible is a “discipline.” Terminology does evoke certain emotions and a term that evokes a cringe factor seldom motivates. There’s no need to use a term that slows down the already hesitant. Think about it…
 
When we love someone we ache to know who they are and our hearts long for them. We don’t find ourselves dreading the moments with them, we live for those moments. But we do dread and even rebel when we are demanded to complete “disciplines.”
 
I am married to one of the most amazing people on the planet. When we were dating I would do anything to be around her and to know more about her. If she had written a book telling me what she thought, what kind of person she was, and that revealed to me how she had treated her boyfriends in the past I would’ve read it and reread it and reread it. That is, unless she had told me it was “discipline” that was required daily if I wanted to be loved by her.
 
I’m afraid many of our small group members don’t read their Bibles because in calling this opportunity a discipline we’ve removed the beauty of it and at the same time eradicated the reason for it, to know God, know how He loves us, and how He treats those He loves.
 
A few suggestions that may help your group members…
1.     Stop speaking of time with God as a discipline.
2.     When speaking of reading the Bible, use phrases like, “growing your love relationship with God,” “building your relationship with Him,” etc…
3.     When describing your own time in God’s Word, tell how it changed your perspective of Him, what fantastic revelation of His character changed how you felt about Him, etc…


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06.18.2012

How to Get Small Group Members to Read Their Bibles I… Deliberate Distractions

 
 
In Brad Waggoner’s book The Shape of Faith to Come he tells us that research has shown that one of the primary necessities for the individual that is going to become a mature follower of Jesus is reading the Bible daily. He also points out that “16 per cent said they read their Bible every day. Another 20 per cent read it “a few times a week,” and 12 percent read it weekly. Why is that? Why is it that if we polled our small group of ten only half of them would be spending significant time finding out who God is, what God has done for and is willing to do for those who are His children, and what the future holds for all of us?
 
I believe there are five reasons that believers today overlook the most important work ever written, the book given us by God Himself. I’m going to dive headlong into each of them this week, one blog post each day. At the end of each post I’ll give a few practical ideas that may help you get your small group members to study the most important document ever given humankind.
 
First off… Deliberate Distractions. Our culture offers many, many distractions. Let’s face it, there are screens to look at… TV’s, computers, iPads, Kindles, and those tiny cell phone screens that allow us to text till our fingers bleed. According to the A.C. Nielsen Co., the average American watches 28 hours of television per week. But when you ask your small group how many of them read their Bible and how many days this week they did so, it is disappointing to say the least. Most will say they “just didn’t have time.”
 
There are distractions for sure, but they are deliberate. Each of us gets to decide what we will do with the hours beyond work and sleep. For most of us, reading the Bible doesn’t even make the list. We’ve been reminded by our senior pastor from the pulpit, we’ve discussed it in our small group, and if your group members are in a healthy accountability group or are being mentored, they’re getting an ear full every week. Once we know what we should do, if we allow other distractions to trump daily revelation of God through the reading of His Words found in the Bible, we are doing so deliberately.
 
Instead of calling this post “Deliberate Distractions” maybe I should have termed it, “Predictable Prioritizing.” The truth is, whatever we love most we will make a priority and it seems many of us subconsciously “love the things of the world” more than we love God. Culture has taught us to love “the things of the world.” But scripture says, “love not the things of the world…” You may be thinkin’… Dude, Howerton has turned into a closed-minded separatist wishing all of us would cloister together in a commune and chant.
 
Please don’t misunderstand me. I’m not suggesting that watching television (or enjoying things other than studying the Bible) is wrong. What I am suggesting is that choosing any distraction over daily time knowing the heart of the Deity is at best, a poor choice.
 
So, how do we help our small group members “realize and replace” distractions with time in the Scripture? A few suggestions…
 
1.     Give each of them a 3 by 5 card at your next meeting. Ask them to write down how they spent each hour of every day all seven days between meetings. At your next meeting make your Ice-Breaker question, “So, what did you do with the hours you had when you weren’t at work or sleeping?” Then talk about prioritizing time in God’s Word.
2.     Suggest they put time with God in their day-timer. Few people miss appointments if the appointment has a specific time noted in the daytimer.
3.     Ask group members to do a heart check. Have group ask God to reveal to them who and/or what they love the most. Please know that there’s a huge difference between a head check and a heart check. Nearly every group member knows in their head that they should love God above all other passions. But when it comes down to it, when we allow God to tell us what we truly love most, boyfriends, girlfriends, golf, American Idol, or a plethora of other idols often takes first place. Remind the group that each of us gives our time and attention to that which we are most in love with. 


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